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In March 1966,
I received a letter from the Council, offering me a prefabricated house
at Whoberley. I really wanted one in Radford but I was told that
they would be demolished within a few years, and that when they were, I
would be able to apply to move to Radford, so I immediately went to the
Housing Office in Radford and accepted the offer. Meanwhile, Bob had
asked me to marry him and we were supposed to be married on March 19th
1966. However, he got cold feet and went back to live with his Mum
and Dad, while reviewing the situation. Meanwhile, I was too busy
planning to move to my new home, to let it worry me too much.
Knowing what he was like, I knew he'd be back at some stage. I
received the keys to 112, Brookside Avenue on April 22nd and the next
day, I left Billy with Mum and Dad, so that I could go and see it.
When I got there, it was a bit of a tip, as the previous tenants had
been evicted and it needed a coat of paint in the living room and the
kitchen. There was a carpet abandoned on the field outside and on
inspection, it didn't look too bad, so I rescued it for my living room.
I was cleaning the windows, when a young lady came up to me and
introduced herself as Josie Denie. That was the start of a long
friendship that endures to this day. Josie was married to Joe and
they had four children. Honor, the eldest was about five, Bridget
was three, Alan was two and Sean was about three or four months old. The following evening, having
got Billy to bed and asleep; I made three journeys after dark with a
pram full of my things each time. The landlady kept her eye on him.
There were a couple of dining chairs and two fireside chairs that my Nan
left me. Bedding and clothes etc., as I said, all in all, it took
three journeys from Sandy lane to Whoberley.
Val was living in a flat in Spon Street at
the time; over a furniture shop called Stylo which was situated in Spon
Street, so I went down the next day and ordered myself a double bed
that would be delivered the following week. It cost £22.00 and I
could pay for it in instalments. I took Billy back up to the
prefab to see Josie, and there was a lady living in the prefab in front of
our block, called
Ann Archer. She was about 70 and a widow who had her Grandson living
with her, but I never saw a lot of him, as he was working. She came from
Liverpool and a kinder hearted lady, you never did meet! She gave
me a nice thick kapok flock mattress to sleep on until my bed was
delivered. I had bedding, so I was able to make a bed up. Bill
still had his cot, so we were O.K. to move in by Wednesday 27th April.
It should have been two months before my baby was due. The prefab had a
cooker built in it and cupboards and wardrobes. There was a nice
bathroom and I got a "coin in the slot" rental television. I still
had my old fashioned radio, so I could also get music. When I'd
given the place a lick of paint, I knew we could be happy here. I
got some paint from my Dad and started on the gloss in the front room,
as the shelf had been pitted with burning cigarettes. I also got
some lemon paint, to do my kitchen after I had tidied the living room.
The rent was £1.8.0d (£1.40p) the first week, but it went up to
£2.0.0d the following week, which was more than half less than I had
been paying the Asians for the honour of living in their rooms!!
Heaven help you if the rent wasn't there on the Friday, if the National
Assistant were late sending it to you. You were out on your ear!
What a nice change to be secure at last, after almost six years.
On the Friday night, I was out in the kitchen,
painting the doors lemon and a face appeared at the back door window.
I wasn't at all surprised to see that it was Robert John! I, of
course, let him in and he grabbed the paintbrush off me and started
painting where I'd left off. You never saw so many runs in your
life away from a sports track!! I soon grabbed the brush back and
made him go and sit down. Interior decorating was NOT Bob's forte!
Anyway, that was it! He was there and there he stayed for the
duration. We settled in and the local Health visitor, Mrs.
Dickinson, came and introduced herself to me the second week. This
lady was one of natures angels. She was such a help to me and the
first thing she did, was to get me a pram and cot for my new addition.
The pram was a low one in enamelled metal and was brown and white, with
not a scratch on it, but it was a bit plain, so I got some teddy bear
transfers and put one on each side of it. It really made a
difference. Of course it kept me busy while I was pregnant,
knitting and "feathering my nest". Baby was due on June 22nd.
I was able to have a bath every night now, as the fire in the living
room warmed the water without using the electricity. On May 20th,
I was having my bath and we were particularly short of money at the
time. I heard Bob rattling around in the front room, then a few
minutes later; he came into the bathroom with the coin box from
off the television! He emptied £2.10.0d in sixpences onto the
bathroom floor! I nearly had a fit!!! "Put that back
immediately" I shouted to him. He laughed and said "Don't
worry, we can borrow this until the man comes to collect the money"
Well---I had visions of being prosecuted by the police and paying a
hefty fine. However the deed was done and next morning, he split
the money between us. Off he went for his usual Saturday jaunt;
down the town, to the City Arms, back up to the Radford pub, to Blackie's
the betting shop to have a flutter and back to the Radford pub for the
evening. I never saw much of him on a Saturday, as I usually took
Billy to see my Mum and Dad for the afternoon. David was divorced by now
and had custody of his boys. They were usually there as well.
David hadn't spoken to me much after John and I got divorced and I met
Bob, so I didn't have a lot to do with him at the time, but his boys
were lovely.
This particular Saturday though, was
different. No sooner had Bob left, when I started to get pains.
I went up to Josie to tell her and she made me a cup of tea while we
waited to see what was happening. An hour went by and they were
coming every ten minutes or so by the afternoon, the time between was
getting shorter, so although my baby wasn't due, we guessed that I was
in labour. Josie called an ambulance and said that she would take care
of Billy until arrangements could be made, or Bob got back. I had
booked a home birth as I didn't want to have my baby in hospital, but as
it was premature by a month, they admitted me to Keresley Hospital for
48 hours. I arrived at about 3.30 in the afternoon and was sitting
up knitting a yellow matinee coat, when my pains got stronger. By
the time 4.40 P.M. came, the pains had changed and I started pushing, so
they quickly got me to the labour ward, where Dr. Montassi, a lovely
Cypriot doctor, was on hand to deliver the baby. He had met me
already during the afternoon and asked me what I wanted; I told
him "A little girl". He said he would try and arrange it! She was born at 4.45 P.M. on Saturday May 21st 1966,
weighing 4lb 8 oz. I had never had such a small baby and I was
frightened as I thought she weighed less than that. Her little
arms we no thicker than Bob's finger. She had a thick head of
black hair and she was the most beautiful baby I'd ever seen! They
immediately took her away from me down to the nursery to put her into an
incubator. I was back on the ward by 4.50 P.M.! Ten minutes
in all! The nurse brought me a cup of tea and I just lay there
looking at it! I hadn't the energy to drink it. They gave me
a radio and I lay listening to it. I remember that Cassius Clay
was fighting Henry Cooper that night and I followed the fight with
gusto! I thought "Well---I've done my bit Henry---now it's your
turn!" This is a link to the story of the fight.
http://news.bbc.co.uk/onthisday/hi/dates/stories/may/21/newsid_2504000/2504777.stm
Henry Cooper lost in the sixth round, with a cut to his eye, but Cassius
Clay (recently changed his name to Mohamed Ali) didn't put him down, so
he didn't win on a knock out!
After this, as I came round a bit, I got
talking to the girl in the next bed to me. She had just had a baby
girl and I found out that she lived just up the road from me, in
Whoberly. Her name was Pat Blount and we became close friends
after meeting in hospital. The following day (Sunday), Sister
Edwards, a lady with a reputation of being somewhat of a tyrant, came to
see me and told me that Bob had come to visit me, the night before
at midnight!!! Well---I was speechless! She apologised for
not letting him in to see me but said that he did see his baby daughter.
Even that amazed me. Cheeky monkey coming at that time of night!
Everyone was scared of Sister Edwards. I don't know why, as she
was only about 5'2" with short ginger hair, but she commanded respect.
Ha! what did my beloved say to her at midnight when she told him he had
a daughter?---" Well, turn yourself upside down and let me see what you
are!"---Oh the humilation! Soon after this, a friend of mine came into
the bed next to me the other side. Chris Nelson was once engaged
to Bob's brother, Fred, but they split up and she married someone with
the surname Thomas. She had a difficult labour, but she was very
brave and gave birth to a little boy, Brian. Chris and Pat were a laugh
a minute, so I really enjoyed what little time I spent in Keresley
hospital, until visiting time, when Bob and Val came to see me.
Then I had a bit of a set back. Of course, I was so pleased to see
them, but not to pleased with what they had to tell me.
Apparently, when Joe came home and Josie told him what had happened, he
wasn't best pleased. I don't blame him either, after all, they'd
only known me for three weeks and already had four of their own to
attend to, so Josie got in touch with Bob's Mum. She was working
at Embling's at the time in the evenings, an off licence by Val's shop,
in Spon Street. She ran the off licence by herself, so of course,
had to be there. The only thing she could think of, was putting
Billy in Keresley Grange children's home temporarily. When Bob
found all this out, he tried his best to get Billy back home before I
was aware of it, but as we weren't married, he was not allowed to, even
though Billy was his son. I had to be there. Thank God I was
going home the next day! I often wonder why on earth they couldn't take
him to my Mum's, as I know that she would have had him. Perhaps
they were panicking a bit and didn't think to. However, I came
home the next day, having to leave my new daughter in hospital until her
weight came up to 5 and a half pounds. Mum's sister, my Aunt Laura, was
working there at the time as an Auxillary nurse and when she knew that I
would be going home and leaving my baby, she told me not to worry and
that she would keep and eye on her. That was a nice comfort! Bob had
already been in touch with the Grange and it was arranged that Billy
would be home the next day. (Tuesday). My first night home wasn't very
happy, as my daughter was at the hospital and my son was in Keresley
Grange, so to say I felt bereft was an understatement, however, Bob was
so good to me and sorry for not being there. He bought me a bottle
of port. It was O.K. as I wasn't feeding the baby myself. So I had
a few glasses and, looking into the corner of my room where the "new"
pram and new wardrobe and layette was waiting for "Shayne" as we
referred to her, shed a few tears and went to sleep.
The next day, I started knitting tiny
cardigans in pink for my new baby. She already had quite a few
matinee coats in lemon and white. Bob's brother Bill and his
partner, Sheila,
lived with an old man in Engleton Road and he gave her four beautiful
Edwardian day gowns to give to me and they made lovely nighties for my
little girl. She had plenty of clothes! While I was knitting
away, the door knocked, and when I answered it, Billy was home.
The lady who brought him apologised for not bringing home before, or
letting Bob have him, but she explained that was the rules, and I quite
understood. I brought him in and cuddled him on my knee and, bless
him, he didn't say a word for half an hour. He just stared at me
with his big blue eyes. Oh my gosh! Did I feel terrible!
After that, he came round and was his usual chirpy self. I vowed
there and then that it would never happen again! We soon got back
into a routine and Bill liked to watch Bob Monkhouse who had a programme
in the afternoons on the television called "Mad Movies." This
involved clips from silent movies; Keystone Cops, Harold Lloyd, cross
eyed Ben Turpin and many other stars from the silent era. He loved that
programme! One afternoon I was writing a letter to someone while I
was sitting at the table. I could see the television and also
Billy, watching it. Ben Turpin was showing at the time and my
Billy was engrossed. His squint was really noticeable while he was
watching. I really chuckled to myself, because there he was,
watching cross-eyed Ben Turpin with his cross eyes! It was almost
like seeing double! This of course, was a legacy from when Billy
had the measles at the age of 18 months and we had to wait until October
1969 before he could have an operation to correct it.
Bob and I visited "Shayne" in hospital and
her progress was going well, but it became a race against time, because
the new Walsgrave hospital was due to open three weeks after my
daughter's birth and if she didn't gain the required weight, she would
be transferred there. Of course, that was the other side of town.
Pat was home by now and I went to her home to visit her and got to know
her better. She had worked when she was younger at Chipperfields
circus, with the elephants. I'd taken John to Chipperfields and at
the time, she must have been one of the exotic ladies riding the
elephants while they were performing tricks. She was a lovely girl but
the future was bleak for her, as she got divorced from her husband and
her daughter, Julie (the baby that was born when I had Jeanette) , committed suicide in the 1980's. I saw Pat
some time after that but she had become an alcoholic and died a long
time ago of cirrhosis of the liver. A sad end to a lovely lady! In
the meantime, however, there was much debating between everyone and Bob
about "Shayne's" name. I was sitting in bed one night and he came
in and said "You know Jo, no-one seems to think that her name suits a
girl". I said " Well, I've got used to it now, but if you're not
happy, we'll change it." "What shall we call her then?" I went
through a list of names that I like. The discussion went like
this---" Wendy?--
'No'--Mandy?--'No'--Tracy?--'No--Annette?--'No'--Jeanette--' Ah! Yes, I
like that!'--Right---that's what it is then, Jeanette Shayne!" That was
that sorted! The three weeks was up and we waited for the verdict.
Yes---Jeanette could come home as she weighed five and a half pounds!
She wouldn't be taken to Walsgrave after all!
After I brought her home, I went to
register her at Meriden, which was the district that she was born in.
I got on the Birmingham bus and when I got off at Meriden, had to walk
down a long lane to sort things out. Wouldn't you believe it, but
the place was closed, so I had to go back home without doing it.
Now what? I had a letter the next day, to tell me that we had an
appointment at Coventry and Warwickshire paediatric department for her
check up. I dressed her in a little pink dress that I had knitted,
with matching bootees and cardigan and she looked really lovely.
Everyone was admiring her on the bus, and ladies were saying "That
little girl has been here before!" It was true! She was
looking all around her with her big eyes and she was so knowing!
This tiny little girl---you couldn't believe it! When we got to
Cov. and Warwick, I was sent to a cubicle to await what was to come.
A student nurse was passing and Jeanette caught her eye." Oh!
isn't she super?" were her words. I was really proud! Then I
was summoned. When the nurse took me to the room where she was to
be examined, I went in and Lo and Behold! Who should be there, but
the formidable Sister Edwards! She was lovely! She examined
Jeanette and gave her a clean slate then asked me if I'd registered her.
I explained what had happened and she said " Don't worry about it dear!
I'll get it sorted out for you!" Bless her---she was as good as her
word! I didn't even have to go anywhere, as she dealt with the lot
and Jeanette's birth certificate came through the post a couple of days
later.
Mum
and Dad were thrilled to bits to have a baby Grand-daughter. Mum
went out and bought a lovely lemon pram cover and matching pillow for
her. Dad gave her her bottle on one of the Saturdays that I took
her up to see them. All in all it was a very happy time. It
was a lovely summer and at the end of June, the Jules Rimmer World Cup
began at Wembley Stadium. Even me, who hasn't the slightest interest in
soccer football, watched all the qualifying matches previous to the
final. The most memorable to me being Portugal and Eusabio.
World cup fever was at it's height. Dad and Roger were glued to the
telly every time I went to see them. Roger was a fervent Sky Blues
(Coventry) supporter. I was at Mum and Dad's on the final
Saturday, when England won the cup. Well---you have never heard
such joyful noise in your life as when Kenneth Wolstenhome said the
immortal words " They think it's all over------ it is now!"
The only time I can think of matching it, is when Coventry won the F.A.
Cup in 1987, but we will come to that, later. This is a link to
the result of the 1966 World Cup
http://www.the-english-football-archive.com/england/world_cup/1966.htm
Dad took our photographs that afternoon, in colour, which was a new
innovation. The camera actually took transparent slide shots, but
after a while, I was able to get them developed as photographs. Dad
never ever saw the results, as sadly, he was to pass away before they
were developed.
July and August passed happily and my
friendships grew with Josie, Pat and Ann and my babies were thriving.
Ann had taken a shine to Billy and enjoyed taking him to the Co-op in
the mornings, when she went shopping. She liked a small bet on the
horses and as the betting shop was across a brook behind our prefab, she
asked me to put her bets on. Usually it was a 5s.0d roll-up each
way. No problem to me, as every time she made her lovely soups and
stews, she would give me a big bowl for us. She liked to go for a drink
every night, with her friends, except on the nights when she was
suffering from the gout that played her up now and again. Did she
go to the local pub?----Indeed she did not! She would catch the
7-30 PM bus across the City and go to the Forester's Arms! Before
she moved to her prefab, she had lived in Queen Street, in Hillfields.
She was really happy there and made many friends, but the Council had a
compulsory purchase order for them to knock the houses down to build
eight storey blocks of flats, so they put her in the prefab, but,
undaunted, she still went to see her friends.
September came, and during the
second week, I went up to see my Dad at lunch time. They always
left the front door key on the ledge in the porch, for me to let myself
in. I walked in as usual and a small voice came from upstairs.
" Come on up, I'm in bed. I've had a heart attack!" My first
thought was "Why wasn't he in hospital?" However, he didn't seem
worried and the doctor had given him some pills. We found out
later that they were 'Contact' flue capsules!!! My Father was
being treated for the 'flue instead of a heart attack! This was on
Thursday 22nd. I didn't stay long, as he wanted to sleep, so worriedly,
I went back home. I went back to see him the next day and stayed
longer. By this time, Dave and Roger had got his bed downstairs
into the front room. He asked me if I would go and get him some
wafer biscuits. I managed to get him some and he lay there
nibbling on one. I looked at him and suddenly noticed that he
looked old. He always had deep lines in his forehead, but they
looked even deeper this day and his skin was grey looking. I waited
until Mum came home from work----she was working at Copthorne school at
the time, and was cook supervisor in the school canteen----and told her
how he'd been, then, worriedly, I went back home. We called in to
see him on the Saturday and he was quite a bit brighter and looked
better. Judy was there with Stewart and Tim. On the Sunday, I left
Billy and Jeanette with Val, as she was staying with us at the time, her
flat in Spon Street also had a purchase order on it, so she had moved in
temporarily. I went in at about 6-45 P.M. Dad was sitting up in
bed, quite chirpy! He had a visit that afternoon from his friend,
Charlie Dupenois, who had worked with him in his office, but had
emigrated to Canada. He was home on a visit, and came to see Dad.
Charlie had played at one time for Coventry R.F.C. Dad was in the
front room, and Mum was watching television in the back. He asked
me to get a cigarette from her, as he hadn't had one since Wednesday.
Being totally ignorant of the dangers of smoking and heart attacks, I
got one from her for him. He took three puffs and put it out.
After about half an hour, I kissed him goodnight and left. "See
you in the morning, Pop!", were my last words to him. Strangely
though, I usually kissed his forehead or his cheek, but this time I
kissed him full on his lips. As I was walking home, when I got
half way along Brookside Avenue, I had a strange feeling. The
thought came to my mind that I hadn't kissed Mum! When I got home,
it was just before 8 o'clock and the the children were asleep, so I
watched some television. At 9.45 P.M. there was a knock on the
door and when I answered it, Roger stood there. He just said
"Dad's gone!". I turned stone cold. He had to go and see
someone else, but he said that he would call back for me to go to see
Mum. While I was waiting for him to return, I was in a daze, and
had to make myself cry to believe it. A little later, I went up to see
Mum and, bless her, she was very brave. Apparently, after I left,
Judy's Grandma, Hetty came to see him and she had just had an operation.
They were laughing about their scars and Dad suddenly fell back.
He was gone! A massive coronary thrombosis. He was just 58
and two months. He died at 7-45 P.M., which was the time that I had been
walking home along Brookside Avenue!
It was Roger's 20th birthday the following
day and a week before, I had bought him some really nice cuff links.
I gave them to Dad to look after for me and he had hidden them so
well that no-one found them for a fortnight! I went that night to
see him in Pargetter's and indeed went every day until his funeral
Even the same morning. I couldn't let him go. His funeral was on
the Wednesday and the church service was at St. John the Baptist in
Fleet Street and after that, to Canley where to my shock, he was
cremated. That took a bit of getting used to, but it was his wish
and his ashes were scattered over a red rose bush in the garden of rest
there. The funeral cortege went along the new Inner Ring Road as Dad had
a hand in the designing of it. (I have, as a pedestrian, often cursed
him for it!!) One bright spot in the whole of that day, was that John
and Celia allowed young John to attend his funeral and it was more than
fantastic to see him there especially as he came back home with me for a
while. After that, he came several times to visit me, unbeknown to
them and it was always a joyous time. Billy liked to play with him
down at the brook when he came. The Sunday after Dad's funeral, I
decided to make a Yorkshire pudding again, as we had beef for dinner.
I mixed my batter, as usual and when it came out of the oven, it was
perfect for the very first time! I knew then that Dad was looking
after me! It was my birthday in October and
Pat, and a couple of other friends, came to the Coronation Club with me
to celebrate it. Not being used to going out a great deal, we were soon
quite merry after a few drinks and when we were on the way home, we got
off the Keresley bus at the Belgrade theatre, which had a lovely
fountain and pool outside it. The girls and I were mucking about
and dared each other to go under the fountain. Pat went first I
think. She got through it O.K., with just a small drenching, but
when it was my turn, the force of the water pulled me into the pool and
I was completely soaked! Fortunately, it was raining, so when I
boarded the Allesley Park bus, it wasn't as embarrassing as it could
have been. Aspley-Tyas were a firm building new houses on the site
where the prefabs were being demolished in Lyndale Road, and as we
walked home, there was a ladder against the wall of a house that was
being built. Pat had to climb to the top of it! Fortunately
there were no accidents that time! It's a miracle that none of us
were arrested that night! A week later, another national tragedy
occurred. In a small welsh village called Aberfan, a coal tip
collapsed after continuous rain and slid down on to a school, burying
112 children in slurry. This of course, devastated everyone.
Practically a whole generation of the village were wiped out. I
never saw my Mum cry very much, but she broke her heart that day.
Possibly because it was so soon after her personal tragedy.
Soon
after this, Bob asked me to marry him again. I told him that he'd
better not back out this time!! We had to arrange it secretly, as
my family thought that we got married in the previous March, so it was
arranged that we would be quietly married on December 3rd. We were
to be married at 10.40 A.M. We had a massive row before the event,
as I'd asked him if he'd paid the rent for me. " No, I didn't! I
had to use it for the marriage licence!" I was furious and had a
chance of calling it all off, but I thought "Ay-Up--you might not get
another chance" So I swallowed my pride and arranged to meet him at the
Registry Office in Little Park Street. Josie cut my hair for me,
and I was still fuming, but I got ready and went anyway. I
laddered my stockings and had to go into a shop for some new ones on the
way and changed them in the Ladies cloakroom in Earl Street. The
only guests were three of Bob's friends, his sister Carol and a friend
of hers, and Bill's partner, Sheila. We went to the Market Tavern
for a couple of drinks to celebrate and on the way, Sheila nipped into a
shop and bought us a pair of silver hearts, with black cats swinging on
them. I was so pleased with it and it hung above our bed until
Jeanette demolished it when she was playing on the bed! We went to
see Bob's Mum and Dad in the afternoon and then went home, where Bill
and Sheila were waiting for us. We went out at night to the Three
Spires, as they baby sat for us and we had a lovely time. Married at
last!-----and yes---that piece of paper DID make a difference!
I had been putting a few shillings
by in the butcher's club, ready for our first Christmas in our own home
and had enough for a lovely capon and a piece of pork for our
dinner. It was the very first real Christmas that we'd had since
we met. I decorated the room and put the tree up and we had a
lovely Christmas that year! Billy had a Corgi model of Chitty
Chitty Bang Bang and James Bond's Aston Martin car, also a model tractor
that he could ride on. Jeanette had a Tiny Tears doll. I was
rather upset at the time though, as I couldn't afford to get my Dad a
wreath. I had a brainwave though and got some fuse wire and
several small branches of Cypress and fashioned a cross from them.
On Boxing Day, I took the children up to the Crematorium (it was only
about 20 minutes walk along the Highway) and placed the cross where his
ashes had been scattered. As I turned to walk back out, it started
raining very gently and walking out of the gate and back on to the
Highway, there was the most beautiful rainbow stretching across! I
felt as if it was my Dad saying "Thanks love!" About a week later,
I had a small legacy from him. I went to town and the first thing
I got was a wedding ring, as mine was only borrowed from Bob's Mum and I
wanted one of my own. It was 9 carat gold with a pattern on it and
it cost £2.10s.0d. (£2.50p)! I am still wearing that ring today
after forty two years and the pattern has never faded. I also treated
myself to a new coat and other clothes. Bob got a job with
Aspley-Tyas and was working over the road, where they were demolishing
the prefabs, so he hadn't far to go! He used to come home for his
tea breaks in the mornings and at lunch time. At the time, he
worked with the husband of my neighbour. One afternoon that
summer, I caught them out a treat! I was going to the shops and
came out on to the road and opposite, there were the pair of them
leaning on their spades and ogling a young girl who was walking up the
street! "Get back to work!!" I shouted! The pair of
them soon moved!
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